Alex Coulson asked:
When girls say guys should just be themselves what does this mean?
Confidence around women is a skill that can be learned just like riding a bike. Below are some general but powerful tips. There simplicity is often overlooked.
Biggest Mistakes Guys Make Around Women:
Capitulate to Womenâ€™s Whims : â€œYes Dear.â€ â€œWhatever you want, honey.â€ Men only say this to avoid conflict (at best) or (at worst) because they pathetically think that their efforts will somehow impress a woman. Women smell insincerity a mile away. Sorry.
Is Afraid to Lose the Woman He Is With: Therefore, he literally bends over backwards not to â€œupsetâ€ her or say the wrong thing. Despite the obvious desperation involved here, arguably the most unattractive aspect of all this to a woman is how BORING it is.
Has Zero Leadership Ability: Guys often hear that â€œif Mama ainâ€™t happy, ainâ€™t nobody happyâ€. So the thought process is geared toward letting them make decisions and letting them get what they want. Unfortunately, women have a level of respect for a man that correlates to his level of leadership in a relationship. Zero leadership equals zero respectâ€¦which, logically, equals zero second dates.
Lacks Confidence: If you are worried she wonâ€™t like you she probably wonâ€™t. And similarly, if you act â€œniceâ€ because you havenâ€™t the courage to stand up for yourself, sheâ€™ll likely walk all over youâ€¦disgusted by every second of it.
Has Thinly-Veiled Ulterior Motives : Nobody likes to be â€œbrown nosedâ€ or â€œbuttered upâ€. There is no more blatant display of viewing a woman as a purely sexual object than to go overboard being â€œniceâ€. She knows, you know and the rest of the world knows you wouldnâ€™t be so â€œniceâ€ if she wasnâ€™t so sexy. Consider how weak this appears to a woman. End of story.
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