Scott Patterson asked:
The other day I was reading an excellent article by seduction guru “Neil Strauss”. In this article, he discussed the importance of displaying specific signs of attraction which will make a woman interested in you.
What he discussed is how it ‘s up to YOU to demonstrate qualities which women find attractive. By doing this you’ll increase your chances of success. Primarily there are 7 of the signs of attraction which women want from a guy:
1- Sexuality
During an initial conversation, attraction simply comes down to making a woman sexually desire you. So when you’re talking to a girl, you shouldn’t be afraid to act like a sexual being. Make jokes, innuendos and talk about sex in a general manner. The only requirement is to never make EXPLICIT sexual comments about her.
2- Goal Orientation
Most women don’t want a guy with a fancy job or lots of money. But they do want to be with men who have ambition and is working towards achieving something with their lives. So during your conversation, you must demonstrate that you’re on the path towards great success.
3- Safety
Whenever you’re talking to a woman, you must show that you’re a safe guy to be around. Before you can initiate any sort of sexual activity or go on a date, a woman needs to feel comfortable within your presence. So instead of displaying “creepy” character traits you should do things which will increase her levels of comfort.
4- Common Interests
Rapport and chemistry with a woman often comes down to sharing common interests. It’s human nature to want to be with somebody who is similar to us. So when you’re talking to a woman, find out if you share any common viewpoints or similarities. Then work hard to steer the conversation towards discussing them.
5- Higher Status
In a social situation, women want to be with a man who is the leader of his crowd. This means whenever you’re around women, you have to be the guy who has high status and social proof. Your goal is to display leadership qualities and have other people look to you for the decision making. This can include demonstrating traits like confidence, initiative and decision making.
6- A Mysterious Personality
If a woman can figure you out in the first few minutes then she won’t be that attracted to you. Your goal when you first meet a woman is to be slightly aloof and not forthcoming about your entire life. You want to talk about yourself, but not give away every little secret.
7- You’re Better Then Other Guys
The final sign of attraction to display is how you stand out from the rest of the guys she meets. By being perceived as a unique male, you’ll make women realize that she is talking to a unique guy. And the best way to display this trait is to incorporate all of the character traits described in this article. When you discover how to be the embodiment of all positive character traits, women will be magnetically drawn to you.
Whenever you’re in a conversation with a woman, it’s important to show specific signs of attraction. If she thinks you’re an interesting and exciting, then you’ll discover that it’s easy get a woman attracted to you. Simply incorporate the 7 traits I described in this article and you’ll discover it’s easy to increase your chances of success.