Beth & Lee McCain asked:
Have you wondered where that perfect someone is for you? Have you just been waiting for him or her to enter your life? Well, wait no more. You have all the tools, right now, to find your mate and here are some answers for using the tools that you already possess through the Law of Attraction.
Instead of waiting for them to enter in your life, attract them to you. In order to find your mate, you want to take inventory on what kind of mate you want. Get yourself a piece of paper and start with an inventory list. Write down every quality that you would like in that perfect someone. The physical attributes aren’t important at the moment. Is your mate adventuresome, quiet, humorous, enjoys movies? Anything that you can think of, write it down.
Once you take inventory, create a clear image of your soon-to-be mate. Here’s a tip: If you have a certain someone in mind, make sure that when you create your image, you go with substance over fluff. When you concentrate on the true qualities, the Universe will attract someone to you who is just as you envisioned. When you emit strong thoughts and feelings about a particular person as the clear image, there is a possibility that the certain someone doesn’t possess all the qualities that you asked for. The Universe knows every living human being and what their qualities are. Even if someone seems to match your image from a quality level, you really don’t know if they truly match. Only the Universe does, and you don’t want to micro manage the Universe. The Universe will bring you someone that is just as you envision. And who knows, it could be that certain someone but leave it up to the Universe to find the right choice for you.
So now you have this great clear image of your mate. What do you do now?
Take your clear image minus the specific physical features and find yourself a quiet spot to visualize. Close your eyes and see in your mind your perfect mate with all of the qualities you wrote down earlier. See yourself with this person; going places together, having dinner together, whatever you would want to do on a date or in a relationship. Feel the serenity that comes with having someone who is exactly how you envisioned. See yourself together. Hear him or her telling you how much they care about you. Use every sense that you can to create an image of having them right now. Spend at least five minutes on creating your image. After you have had an incredible visualization session, see yourself letting the image go to the Universe and thenâ€¦ truly let it go. Releasing control over finding your mate is essential. Trust the Universe to bring this image to you.
Every evening, visualize and let go and trust the Universe. Make sure that you don’t put any negative feelings toward the image you created because that will only bring you negative. Make sure not to put any impatient feelings toward your image. The Universe will bring you who you desire in the time required. Again, let’s not micro manage the Universe. Your job is to stick to your clear image and visualize and let the Universe take care of the how through the Law of Attraction.
The next step is to be aware because the Universe is going to start bringing you signs that it is taking care of your desire. This sign may manifest as an encouraging ‘thumbs up’ or this sign may be a sign from the Universe to take action. Here’s an example: You meet your best friend’s new boyfriend and he happens to possess eighty percent of the qualities you want in a mate. This is a sign of encouragement from the Universe to you. The Universe is telling you that it is working on your mate and it is eighty percent there. See how it works? Then there is the sign of action. You go to lunch with your best friend whose boyfriend’s cousin is in town and she wants to know if you would do her a favor and double date. This could be the Universe giving you a sign of action because maybe this is the one. Just make sure you are aware of your surroundings and the signs that the Universe sends to you.
So you see, you have all the tools to bring your mate to you through the Law of Attraction. How wonderful is that?