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If you’re like me, then you have moments where just want to lazy. And this is especially true when it comes time to trying to attract a woman. Instead of making an effort to think of a clever pickup line, you simply want attractive women to come to you.
As you know by now, approaching girls and initiating a conversation is pretty hard work. Not only do you have think of something clever to say, you also have to ensure that you build instant attraction.
What’s the interesting is there are a small number of guys who know the secret to getting women to pursue us. Once you understand these techniques, you can sit back and let women vie for your attention. And in this article, I’ll discuss 5 of the best ways you can make women WANT to pursue you. Let’s get started…
1- Qualify her
One of the biggest mistakes guys make to try to “prove themselves” when talking to a woman. Instead of giving away all the power, you should shift focus and make the girl qualify herself.
You can do this by describing how you have specific standards in your life. Then just sit back and watch how she’ll do her best to conform to your guidelines.
2- Act like an alpha male
Women are drawn to guys who display a powerful presence. By acting like a higher status male, you’ll display positive traits like confidence, initiate and leadership.
So during your initial conversation (or before even talking to her) you need to show that you’re “a leader of men” and you’re not afraid to go after what you want.
3- Demonstrate higher value
On the heels of acting like an alpha male, it’s equally important to show that you’re an interesting guy. When you demonstrate specific traits which makes you stand out from the crowd, women will easily notice you.
An easy way to demonstrate higher value is to have an exciting hobby, a fun skill or know how you talk to her in a seductive manner. Just remember that being a high status guy is one of the best ways to build instant attraction in a girl.
4- Be aloof
While it might seem counterintuitive, you can make a woman become attracted to you by acting in an aloof manner. Since females are used to being pursued by guys, you’ll become more mysterious if you show an “I don’t care” attitude. In fact, by displaying a lack of desire, you’ll become a prize which she must work hard to attain.
5- Have your own life
As you’re probably realizing, the best way to attract women is to display a higher status personality. So the final way to get a woman to pursue you is to show an exciting lifestyle.
When you’re talking to a woman, let her know that you have a LOT going on in your life and you don’t NEED to date women. If you can show that you’re happy with your life, she’ll be impressed by the fact that you have a lot of exciting things going on. What’s interesting is when you demonstrate this attitude, women will want work hard to become part of your life.
Getting women to pursue isn’t that hard to do. If you can show that you’re an interesting guy who is worth their time, you’ll discover that women will start to make the first move. Just display the five traits I discussed in this article and you’ll be on your way to making girls chase after you.